Interpersonal Relationship (Part 1) Basics

In this blog, we shall see the meaning, importance, examples, must-haves of interpersonal relationship and what relationships do for us.

Meaning of Interpersonal Relationship

An interpersonal relationship is a strong, deep, or close association or acquaintance between two or more people.  It may range in duration from brief to enduring. The context can vary from family or kinship relations, friendship, marriage, relations with associates, work, clubs, neighbourhoods, and places of worship.

  

Importance of Interpersonal Relationship

Positive interpersonal relationships will allow effective communication and understanding among people.  It enhances respect and regards.  It ensures a common goal, inter-dependence and transparency.

Examples of Interpersonal Relationship

An interpersonal relationship can develop between any of the following:

·        Relationship of a child with his parents.

·        Relationship with immediate family members and relatives.

·        Relationship between friends.

·        Relationship between a man and a woman (Love, Marriage).

·        Individuals working together in the same organisation.

·        People working on the same team.

The relationship can also develop in a group, relationship of students with their teacher, relationship of a religious guru with his disciples and so on. 

Must have in an Interpersonal Relationship

· Individuals in an interpersonal relationship must share common goals and objectives. They should have more or less similar interests and think on the same lines. It is always better if individuals come from similar backgrounds.

· They must respect each other’s views and opinions. A sense of trust is important.

· Individuals must be attached to each other for a healthy interpersonal relationship.

· Transparency plays a pivotal role in the interpersonal relationship. It is important for an individual to be honest and transparent.

What Relationships Do for Us

We all have a circle of people we interact with on a regular basis. You have family, friends, perhaps a significant other, and maybe even co-workers you talk with regularly. This is common for all humans because we are a social species. Imagine your life if you didn't interact with any of these people.

The concept of attachment defines it as a deep and lasting bond connecting people across distance and through time. Attachment enhances survival, especially in infancy when the child is completely dependent on its mother and other caregivers. The caregivers' bond with the child encourages them to fulfil the infant's needs and thus provides a continuation of the species. We don't grow out of this bonding behaviour and continue to benefit throughout our lives from our relationships.

So, friends, that’s all in this blog.  See you in the next blog.  Wish you all the best.

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